September 13, 2020
by DANNY LOOT
D. Describe in the place of diagnose. Avo /E. Avo For example: “once I saw the coffee that is big regarding the rug…” now is easier to know and understand than “once you ruined my time, as constantly, along with your slimy, stinking, completely disgusting, bad antics…”
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| exactly exactly What feelings will you be feeling? | A. Utilize specific feeling describers such as “I feel…”: happy, aggravated, happy, unfortunate, afra /B. Prevent feeling words that imply the action of some other individual: “I feel. Ignored, manipulated, mistreated, ignored, refused, dominated, abandoned, used, cheated (etc. )”Notice How these expressed words indirectly blame the listener for the speaker’s thoughts. So that you can assist your listener determine what you’re feeling, convert these “implied blame” terms into a clearly called feeling (see Suggestion A, above) and an interpretation or unmet need (Message 3). |